Social Story: Asking for Help Nicely

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This social story helps children learn how to ask for help politely from an adult or friend at school or at home.

Who is this social story for?

This story is especially helpful for neurodivergent children and any child who finds it difficult to ask for help, wait for a response, or understand what to do if the answer is “no.”

When can I use this social story?

Use it during daily routines or whenever a child needs extra support with communication and social skills.

What does this story help with?

using polite words like “excuse me” and "please"
asking for help in a calm voice
waiting patiently for an answer
understanding “no” or “not now”
building confidence in communication

Sometimes I need help with something in school or at home

I can't find my socks!

I can stand near the person and say,

Excuse me, can you
help me please?

I can use a soft and calm voice when I'm asking for help

I can remember to
say "please"

After I ask, I wait patiently for the answer

Not now. I'm busy

If they say “no” or “not now,” it does not mean they don’t like me

I can ask again later

I am learning to ask for help nicely.

You waited calmly.
That was great

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Make the hero in the story look like your child.