This social story helps children understand that hitting can happen when they feel angry, frustrated, worried, or overwhelmed, and teaches them safer ways to express big feelings. It supports children in using safe hands, asking for help, taking a break, and learning calm strategies instead of hitting.
Who is this social story for?
This story is especially helpful for autistic children, neurodivergent children, and any child who may hit when they feel upset, overloaded, frustrated, or unable to explain what they need.
When can I use this social story?
Use it before school, playtime, transitions, busy situations, or any time a child may need support to remember safe hands and calm choices.
What does this story help with?
- understanding that hitting can hurt others
- recognising feelings such as anger, worry, and frustration
- noticing body signs like feeling tense, hot, or full of energy
- using safe hands instead of hitting
- asking for help, space, or a break
- learning calm-down strategies
- building emotional regulation and safer communication
